An interesting article i've found, for u guys out there that often got scolded for being unromantic and uncaring refer to this:

1)Who Falls In Love Faster? A: Men!
In one study, seven hundred young lovers were asked, "How early did you realize you were in
love?" Men fell in love faster. Before the fourth date, 20 percent of men had taken the tumble,
whereas only 15 percent of the women realized Cupid had stung them; 43 percent of the women still
didn't know they were in love by the twentieth date, compared to only 30 percent of the men.49
Women are more cautious about getting involved.

2)Who Is More Idealistic About Love? A: Men!
Another study determined that men had a far more idealistic and less practical view of love.50 Men
were not nearly as concerned with a woman's social position or how much money she made.
More men felt that as long as two people truly love each other, they should have no trouble getting
along in marriage.

3)Who Usually Initiates the Breakup? A: Women!
A group of Harvard scientists vigilantly followed the affairs of 231 Boston couples. Of those who
split up, usually it was the woman who suggested the separation. The men wanted to stick it out to
the bitter end.51

4)Who Suffers More From a Breakup? A: Men!
The men felt lonelier, more depressed, unloved, and least free after a split. The men reported that
they found it extremely hard to accept that they were no longer loved and that she had really gone.
What disturbed them most was that they felt there was nothing they could do about it. They were
plagued with the hope that if only they had said the right thing . . . done the right thing. . . .
In fact, three times as many men commit suicide after a disastrous love affair as women do.

5)Who Loves Their Lovers More?A: Men!
Men love their lovers more in relation to others in their life. Several researchers at Yale University
polled male and female participants from age 18 to 70 and asked, "Who do you like, and who do
you love, most in your life?"52 The choices were lover (or spouse), best friend, parents, and siblings.
Men, it turned out, loved and liked their lovers more than their best friends, whereas, with women,
the rankings were about equal. Many women liked their best friends more than they liked their
lovers!
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So now u see that men are compansionate creatures too.

"To love is one, to be loved is another one, it takes both to make two."